Important To Know The Symptoms And Dangers Surrounding Retinal Breaks And Detachments

I’ve been on quite a journey in the past six months. Although it did involve some travel, the journey has certainly not been a fun one. In fact, it’s been rather scary. I don’t yet know the outcome of this journey, but I’m hoping if I share its details others might avoid going down the same path.

It started last December, a few days before Christmas. I kept thinking a stray hair was hanging in my eyes and I’d try to brush it away. But it kept returning. I was busy that morning, so I didn’t think too much about it beyond how annoying it was. As the day progressed, the ‘stray hair’ grew into many rapidly flashing black lines, shooting and darting in and out of my left eye’s vision. Still thinking it more irritating than worrisome, I hoped it’d settle down before it drove me crazy.

But it didn’t settle down. It got worse. The black lines began exploding into zillions of bright little black dots, and my vision became blurry, as though Vaseline had been smeared over my eye. It was after medical facilities’ work hours, and although I try to avoid the hospital ER whenever possible, I didn’t know what else to do. After waiting about three hours, I saw a medical doctor, who looked into my eye and couldn’t see anything wrong, but she didn’t have the equipment needed to do a more thorough examination. She said she’d refer me to an ophthalmologist. By this time, the flashing lines had completely subsided, but I still had the opaque blurriness, filled with those teeny-tiny bright black dots.

I awoke with a massive opaque floater, still filled with all those black dots, constantly moving and swirling around, impeding most of my vision. An ophthalmologist’s office called with an appointment for two days later, which was the Friday before Christmas. At that appointment, both of my pupils were dilated, and the ophthalmologist confirmed that I had a retinal tear on the upper left side. I’ve supplemented the doctor’s explanation to give a clearer description.

As our eyes age, the clear vitreous gel that fills the central eye cavity liquefies and separates from the retina. This is a natural occurring event that happens in most people between the age of forty and seventy. When the gel separates, a person will often see floaters—dots, spots or curly lines, which move with the eye. Usually this quickly settles down and everything returns to normal. Sometimes, most often with people who are extremely nearsighted, the retina will tear or detach when the gel separates.

It’s really important to pay attention if this happens to you. I can’t stress that enough—if you experience these symptoms, get it checked out immediately. Go to or call your optometrist, there’s usually one on-call after hours. They’ll be able to check for a break (tear) or detachment and get you the help you need without delay. Some hospital ERs will call in an ophthalmologist, so check that option, as well. A detached retina is a medical emergency, and the longer you wait to have it repaired, the greater the chance of permanent vision loss.

The ophthalmologist had me meet him at the hospital that same day, where he repaired the retinal tear with laser surgery. I sat upright in a chair and leaned into an apparatus vaguely similar to what’s used to test eye pressure. My eye was held in place, somehow, preventing it from moving. The laser procedure wasn’t pleasant; there were lots of bright, flashing lights, but the pain was tolerable and it only took a few minutes to complete.

I was instructed to take it very easy for the next two weeks. No lifting anything, no exercise, no quick movements or turning my head abruptly. I walk fast, I wave my arms fast while I talk (fast), and I’m not big on lying around relaxing. Nor do I readily ask for help, so doing nothing for two weeks was a challenge, but I did the best I could to remember the doctor’s orders.

Two weeks later, at my follow-up visit, the ophthalmologist said the laser repair looked really good. I expressed my concerns about the opaque floater continuing to impair my vision. The black dots in the floater were less bright and there weren’t as many of them, but when combined with the large grey floater in my other eye, my sight was too unstable to chance driving. He felt the condition would improve somewhat over time, but I’d likely always have that new floater. Not what I wanted to hear, but I left his office thinking the worst was over. Little did I know I was only starting this frightening journey with my vision.

In the coming weeks, I’ll explain more about what I’m going through. I really hope by sharing my experience, I can help others learn the symptoms and dangers surrounding retinal breaks and detachments. Please stay tuned. (Next week’s link)



A Humourous Look At Common Words

These are good characterizations of some common words we use daily.


A person who has stopped growing at both ends

And is now growing in the middle.


A place where women curl up and dye.


The only animals you eat before they are born and after they are dead.


A body that keeps minutes and wastes hours.


Mud with the juice squeezed out.


Someone who is usually me-deep in conversation.


Cold Storage.


Cutting money in half without damaging the paper.


An insect that makes you like flies better.


A grape with a sunburn.


Something you tell to one person at a time.


A bunch of bones with the person scraped off.


The pain that drives you to extraction.


One of the greatest labour-saving devices of today.


An honest opinion openly expressed.


Something other people have,

Similar to my character lines.

As is usually the case when I post something the slightest bit witty, these are not my words.  They’ve been circulating in an email and I don’t know who the originator is to give them credit.


On The Writing Front…

Even though I’m more lurker than participant, I feel so fortunate to be part of a large group of authors associated with MFRW. MFRW stands for Marketing for Romance Writers, although many of the authors write different genres. The focus of the group is to help each other learn the best ways to market and promote their product and to support one another in these endeavours.
What’s even more incredible is the way they’ve all tweeted and retweeted about each other’s books. With the power of Triberr, the tweets really get out there. Such support has been wonderful, and I’ve tried to return the favour by tweeting or retweeting for each of them. Although my reach isn’t far, the Karma is good. I don’t know if all this exposure will translate into more sales, but it’ll definitely help with name recognition, and at this stage in my career, that’s just as important.
The authors of MFRW’s are equally generous with advice and sharing their knowledge on all aspects of writing, publishing and marketing. I strongly advise anyone who writes to join this yahoo group. The resources available on their site are invaluable. You can find their group info here.
On to my exciting news. I’ve signed a contract with The Wild Rose Press on one of my others books!
We’re still in the very early stages, and about all I know at the moment is the title will be Dare To Risk All and I’ll soon start working on edits with my new editor. Which means I’ve had to set aside the manuscript I’ve been working on, because I simply don’t have the kind of mind capable of juggling different stories at the same time. Fingers crossed the edits won’t be too heavy and I can quickly get back to writing (rewriting) my current wip.
For days now, I’ve been madly combing through Dare To Risk All, looking for over-used words, switching the wording in this sentence, completely deleting that sentence, making a little tweak to this scene, making a bigger tweak to that scene…it’s never ending and I tend to be compulsive about it. And of course, once I’m finally done, I’ll have to proofread the entire 200 plus pages for typos. My plan is to get the story back to the editor tomorrow morning, so she can start the editing/revision process.
Hmm, I guess I don’t actually need to sleep tonight.

Happy Easter!

Happy Easter, everyone. Easter is a very religious celebration for some people and for others it’s merely a fun family time. However you celebrate, and even if you don’t, may you have a lovely day.
Easter no longer holds religious significance for me, but I remember as a child, doing Lent, the Stations of the Cross, eating fish on Good Friday and going to church on Easter Sunday in our little dresses and hats. The Easter Bunny brought a chocolate bunny and we had a big meal, sometimes with other relatives, but it was foremost a religious occasion.
When I had my own kids, Easter became all about the excitement of the Easter Bunny, colouring eggs, eating chocolate and enjoying a good meal. Now that I’m an empty-nester, all that’s left is the good meal. My youngest son is in town for Easter (or maybe he’s here because he was running out of clean clothes and needed Mommy to wash them all, that’s still up for debate.). Hubby and I had planned a simple meal with nary a piece of chocolate or bunny cake in sight, but instead we’ll be joining other members of my large extended family at my sister’s place. A good meal is guaranteed and good company as well. Family time.
That’s how I’m celebrating Easter this year. I hope your Easter is equally nice.

A Little Inconvenience Could Save Your Life

April is Cancer Awareness Month, so perhaps it’s fitting that it’s the month I learned whether or not I have cancer. But I shouldn’t have had to wait four months to find out.
Back in November of last year, while at the doctor’s, she commented that the lab hadn’t received my fecal occult blood test back. The sad truth is, I’m given a fecal occult blood test kit every single year and I never return it. There’s no good reason why. Mostly it’s just too inconvenient. Never mind the slight ick factor of collecting stool samples, there are food restrictions to follow, you have to remember to do the test three times in a row…Blah, blah, blah. Excuses.
My doctor told me about a new test, called FIT (fecal immunochemical test), which was easier to complete and more efficient. She wrote down a requisition for it along with some blood work, and off I went to the lab. When I got home I opened the kit and read the instructions. Much simpler. No food restrictions and only one sample needed. So I did it. And it was super easy.
The next week I got a call from the doctor’s office asking me to make an appointment to discuss my test results. I assumed it had to do with my blood tests. I assumed wrong. The FIT test showed positive for blood in my stool. What does that mean? I asked. Possible cancer, the doctor replied, or precancerous polyps. Either way, it needed checking out so she was requesting an urgent colonoscopy. I didn’t panic or worry or even really think seriously about it. Naturally I discussed the test results with my hubby, and I also told a friend, but decided not to tell anyone else until I knew something definitive. I didn’t want anyone worrying about me, especially not my mom or kids. Besides, I’d be getting the colonoscopy soon, and I’d have my answers. Or so I thought.
December went by in a blur. I was beyond super busy with work; there was Christmas and all that. Then January flew by. We had our vacation and when I got back, I didn’t really have a spare moment to dwell on why I hadn’t been booked yet. And I didn’t concern myself with the possibility of having cancer. Much.
As February went by, every once in awhile, especially when some other family members had their own very real brushes with cancer, an insidious little voice in the back of my mind would whisper, maybe you have cancer too, maybe it’s growing worse every day. I’d immediately quash that voice. After all, I had none of the risk factors for colon cancer except for being over 50 and probably too sedentary.
Come March, on another visit to the doctor, I asked her why I hadn’t been called yet. After all, when we’re talking possible cancer and with the test deemed urgent, waiting over three months didn’t seem right. She agreed and said she’d look into it. The following week while I was away visiting family, the hospital called to schedule. Isn’t that the way it is? I wait three months and they finally call when I’m not there.
Anyway, when I got home I booked the appointment for the Friday of following week and soon received an email with the prep information. Yikes! And I’d thought the previous test was too inconvenient.
One week before the test I needed to stop taking my low-dose ASA and multivitamin. It was also suggested I eat no nuts or seeds for a week. No biggie. The day before my test, I was to have a small breakfast: a bowl of cereal, milk, coffee. That’s what I usually have, so fine. For lunch that day, I was to have something light and clear, such as soup broth, no milk or solids. Again, no problem. I’m not a big eater.
But there were other aspects I worried just a bit about.
My finicky tummy doesn’t do well when it’s empty. Basically the acid tries to eat through my stomach lining, which really hurts. My blood sugars also drop if I don’t eat regularly, making me lightheaded and nauseous. I was concerned too, because of my IBS, that the powerful laxative might cause painful cramps. Then there was the worry about the trip to the hospital after drinking all that laxative. (Wearing Depends was recommended! OMG!!) Funny, I wasn’t worried about actually drinking four litres of PEG (polyethelglycol bowel prep) and I wasn’t worried about the colonoscopy. I wasn’t even the least bit concerned about the test results.
Turns out I worried about all the wrong things.
At 4:30 on the afternoon before the test, I had to start drinking the PEG solution. In the space of two hours, I needed to down two litres. That’s 500 ml every half hour. No problem, right? Wrong. Besides the nasty aftertaste (or maybe because of it), my strong gag reflex was operating on high-alert that day. If only I could chug things down the way my hubby can. Glug, glug, glug and 500 ml are gone. Me, it’s more like sip, sip, gag, sip, sip, gag.  You get the picture.
My stomach actually did just fine being empty. I never once felt hungry or lightheaded, not even after more than 24 hours without food. And I took the Gas-X tablets as recommended, so the acid problem didn’t occur either. And there were no cramps, well, nothing serious. To put it delicately, input was far, far more difficult than output.
The next morning, I had to immediately start back on the PEG solution, needing to finish another two litres by 9:00. I honestly didn’t know how I’d get through it without throwing up. I managed, but I won’t lie, it was rough. By the time we left for the hospital, my insides were as clean as a whistle, and I had no worries about needing Depends. Whew!!
At the hospital, we ran into a little roadblock with the IV, but that’s nothing new with me. After a couple of failed attempts, another nurse was called in. She had me lie on a gurney, wrapped my arm in a hot towel, attached a blood pressure cuff and voila! Veins appeared and the IV needle went in smooth as butter.
They use the IV to administer two medications. One is a pain killer/sedative and the other is this miraculous little drug that removes all memory of the events, even though you remain alert. I’d been given this drug a few years ago while having an endoscopy, and I found it both amazing and a little creepy. One minute I’m chatting with a nurse in the procedure room, the next I’m chatting with a completely different nurse in recovery. Bizarre.
This time it didn’t work quite that slick. I had memories of pain. No recollection of the procedure, just of holding a nurse’s hand and breathing through some serious belly pain. I’m usually quite stoic, but I guess I felt ripped off by that memory and I (nicely) let the recovery nurse know I remembered the pain. She apologized and said that my bowel was unusually twisty and it proved a challenge for the doctor. Of course, my bowel would be twisty. Nothing is ever straightforward with my health or my body, so why should my bowel be any different?
I ate a muffin and drank cranberry juice, then the doctor came by to tell me he had discovered and removed a polyp. One single precancerous polyp. Small and relatively innocuous, but with the potential to become big and nasty if left to its own devices. I felt very fortunate.
Colon cancer is one of the deadliest of cancers. It’s also one of the most treatable – if it’s detected early. So if your doctor suggests you complete a FIT kit, please do yourself the favour of complying. Cancer is far more inconvenient than the test. If you’re over fifty, and most especially if you have other risk factors, ask your doctor about taking the test. Be pro-active with your health. All sorts of pertinent information can be found at
You can be sure when the lab tech hands me that FIT kit next year, I will go home and do it. And if my doctor tells me I have to have yet another colonoscopy, I will readily submit myself to the inconvenience of having it. This past scope proved timely and successful. I intend to keep it that way.
Now, fingers crossed for the same positive results on my recent mammography.



BICHOK: butt in chair, hands on keyboard. It’s a writer’s phrase. Commonly used when we’re encouraging ourselves or others to get writing. It also describes my appearance since receiving my first round of edits on It’s Complicated last Thursday.
Technically I have a week to turn them around. But I’m leaving in a few days to visit my son and his family (hurray!!) and I want to spend my time with them, not glued to my computer. So basically I have until tomorrow evening to finish them all. Which is why I’ve had my butt in my chair and my hands on my keyboard nonstop for the past three days.
I’ve also occasionally had my hands tangled in my hair and my fingers tapping impatiently against my desktop.
It took about two hours to breeze through the entire manuscript, nodding my head and accepting the editor’s changes—all the no-brainer ones anyway. Unless you’re a writer, you probably can’t appreciate the absolute thrill of finding a solution for an awkward sentence. I have the ability to recognize an awkward sentence, both my own and those of others. I don’t, however, always have the ability to fix the problem. So I eagerly and thankfully grab the solution when it’s presented, either from my own efforts or by suggestions from someone else. Those are some of the easier edits.
But sometimes the suggestions aren’t offered or the ones that are, don’t necessarily work for the story. Those are the challenging edits. And I agonize over them. And sometimes I have to walk away for a while. I’ve been very fortunate not to have too many tough edits, and after three straight days of BICHOK, I only have a few left to sort out. Each time I go over them with fresh eyes and a clear(ish) mind, I find another answer or two. It’s a relief to know I’ll finish them all by my shortened deadline.
Then I wait for round two.